A dragon named Lupus

You know those moments in the movies where everything slows down and people start walking and talking in slow motion and the character thinks they are in some kind of dream or nightmare and then they wake up? Yea sometimes you almost wish it were a movie and you would wake up because the words you are hearing are your worst fear and nightmares coming to life. Yesterday I heard the words I never wanted to hear, your lupus is active again and your kidneys are showing a decrease in production. Boom.  Welcome to lupus. Life is going along and then there you go hitting minefields again. Rule #1 with lupus. Never get cocky thinking you are doing well and feeling invincible like superman. I did that. For quite a number of years. I guess it happens sometimes after you've been in remission for more than a decade. That feeling of being untouchable. Maybe that's where my daredevil streak comes from or maybe its that Ive been so close to the edge fighting for my life that nothing scares me anymore, except this. I swore I was going to be honest and transparent so I guess here we are. At this point its crank up the fire to see if we can extinguish the flames of lupus before it spreads like wildfire. All of us with lupus know how that goes.  I have sat here and played the what if game. What if I would have taken it easier on myself and actually rested like I should have? Would it have made a difference? Would I still be in remission sailing along living my life?  working and living and loving life ignoring the fact that at the end of the day the dragon called lupus was still there.  After 20 years the dragon has awoken. Ive never been able to figure out why before every major flare up I feel amazing? A month ago I was hiking in The mountains. After that working out at the gym. All while balancing work, family social life and all those other balls we seem to juggle. Physically feeling great. Ignoring those days when my body needed a break just so I could push myself a little more. Trying to pass as normal is addicting.  That feeling of physically feeling normal is addicting. When you've been stamped with lupus more than half your life you are elated when u are treated like everyone else or u get that small taste of what it means to "almost" be normal. Im not sure where this roller coaster will go. I wish I did. Will I come out of this feeling like I just went 10 rounds in the ring and got my ass kicked or that I survived yet again. I guess time will tell. So for now we wait. To see if the meds work, if my kidneys heal or if I can actually learn how to rest. Its a marathon, not a sprint especially when u are battling lupus. Guess its time to strap on my battle gear, straighten my crown and fix my superwoman cape cuz the road just got a little bumpy......