I'm still standing

Just like Elton John once sang in the song I'm still  standing "Don't you know I'm still standing better than I ever did. Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid. I'm still standing after all this time." I feel that song in my soul these days. So I guess the question is what happened after the great burnout of 2020 and 2021?  I changed jobs and pretty soon locations. I found something workwise that fits better for me and I'm away from the things that were causing stressors and flaring my disease up. I drive past water, sand and palm trees on my way to work everyday now. There's something that soothes the soul when you hit the beach. I don't know what it is. At some point I found myself happy. Which was a foreign emotion considering it has been almost 7 years of straight stress and chaos. I can only hope that I'm at the end of the stress and chaos and learn to live again. That was my assignment from my therapist that I started seeing after the great crash of 2020. Learn to live again and live in the moment and create new happy memories. All I can say is I m getting there. Its a process becoming one of the living again. Learning to live and be happy and get out of fight or flight is hard. Its going to take work for me to work on that assignment. But I think I'll be ok amidst the sun and sand. Its hard to be sad or stressed with such a beautiful view to drive past every day. The irony of being a lupus vampire allergic to the sun living on the beach has not escaped me. Lots of sun protection for this girl so I can still enjoy that sun and sand. The one consistent in life is that its ever changing. I find myself dreaming out here. Listening to music again and singing again just a little. Maybe this will be a place of healing for me, after a lifetime of feeling broken.  But that's another blog for another day. Maybe one day that book of mine will finally get written. For now its one step at a time, one day at a time. Its a weird thing when you've made it to the other side of chaos.  Its still chaos for the moment as things fall in line but nothing good is ever easy. So here's to new beginnings and healing.